Well, it's a good thing we made a resolution to write more. Like all great resolutions, the intent was there, but time hasn't been. So here we go!
Our baby boy turned six months old a week ago. He's getting big really fast. He's only about 10 pounds lighter than our daughter, who will be two early next month. He is a very happy baby with a smile that will melt your heart. One of the greatest feelings in the world is coming home from work to three people that are genuinely excited to see me. The little guy's face lights up, our daughter screams "Daddy" at the top of her lungs and Ash is excited to have a tag team partner in what was previously a handicap match.
We recently received some fantastic news from our daughter's social worker. They were waiting on some out of state home studies to be completed for some of her paternal family members. That state decided to discontinue assessing said relatives and closed the case. That was the final hurdle in our daughter's case.
The adoption is now cleared for finalization and will be completed in October! She will legally be our daughter in a couple short months! We are extremely excited and can't wait to make everything official. Our love for her won't change at all with the adoption being finalized. We have loved her like she was our biological child since the day we brought her home. Just as we have with her brother. She already calls us mama and daddy so that won't change.
What will change is that our Facebook friends will be inundated with pictures of our beautiful daughter. We have wanted to post pictures the whole time but are not allowed to do so. Her name will change. Yep, there will be another Sharp running around out there.
And so goes our evolution. The Sharp Evolution. Talk to you all soon...ish.
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Monday, August 11, 2014
Thursday, February 20, 2014
Sister Act
"Change in all things is sweet." ~ Aristotle
Last Tuesday, I got a personal call at work. It was Ashley. She asked if I could talk for a minute and I immediately thought something was wrong. I asked if I could call her back because I was with a customer. As soon as I was done I rushed outside to call her.
Ash said she got a phone call from our daughter's social worker. The social worker told her that our daughter's bio mom had given birth to a baby boy on February 5 and they wanted to know if we were interested in fostering with potential adoption. We, of course, said yes and they set up a meeting for the next day to discuss placement. At the end of the meeting, which was attended by various people involved in both kids' cases, it was decided that baby boy would be placed with us!
Our house was only licensed for one foster child at that point so we had to set up a visit for an annual inspection and capacity change. That was set up for yesterday and capacity change was granted. Once we were licensed for two foster kids, Ash called baby boy's social worker to arrange a transfer from his satellite home to our home. Yesterday at 4:30 we met him, signed the paperwork and brought him home!
That's right! Our little girl is now a big sister! And she's great at it! She likes to kiss him and pat him and rub his head. The little guy is very cute and very little. He is two weeks old now and weighs 6 pounds, 14 ounces. He's about 20" long. That's a big change from when we brought our little girl home. She was already 10 months old. We didn't have to swaddle her or burp her or even hold her bottle while she ate. It's all new and all awesome!
So yeah, we went from having no kids to having two under two in less than eight months. To make things even crazier, we got permission to take them both out of state for an upcoming vacation we had planned. Two babies on a plane. I can almost guarantee that if our flight isn't full nobody will be sitting in that third seat.
Our little family is evolving faster than we expected and we couldn't be happier!
Last Tuesday, I got a personal call at work. It was Ashley. She asked if I could talk for a minute and I immediately thought something was wrong. I asked if I could call her back because I was with a customer. As soon as I was done I rushed outside to call her.
Ash said she got a phone call from our daughter's social worker. The social worker told her that our daughter's bio mom had given birth to a baby boy on February 5 and they wanted to know if we were interested in fostering with potential adoption. We, of course, said yes and they set up a meeting for the next day to discuss placement. At the end of the meeting, which was attended by various people involved in both kids' cases, it was decided that baby boy would be placed with us!
Our house was only licensed for one foster child at that point so we had to set up a visit for an annual inspection and capacity change. That was set up for yesterday and capacity change was granted. Once we were licensed for two foster kids, Ash called baby boy's social worker to arrange a transfer from his satellite home to our home. Yesterday at 4:30 we met him, signed the paperwork and brought him home!
That's right! Our little girl is now a big sister! And she's great at it! She likes to kiss him and pat him and rub his head. The little guy is very cute and very little. He is two weeks old now and weighs 6 pounds, 14 ounces. He's about 20" long. That's a big change from when we brought our little girl home. She was already 10 months old. We didn't have to swaddle her or burp her or even hold her bottle while she ate. It's all new and all awesome!
So yeah, we went from having no kids to having two under two in less than eight months. To make things even crazier, we got permission to take them both out of state for an upcoming vacation we had planned. Two babies on a plane. I can almost guarantee that if our flight isn't full nobody will be sitting in that third seat.
Our little family is evolving faster than we expected and we couldn't be happier!
Friday, January 3, 2014
New Year's Evolution
Hello, readers. Sorry for the long delay between posts. Our New Year's resolution is to get better at keeping you all up to date on the Sharp Evolution. Speaking of the new year, we hope you all enjoyed your holidays. Anyway, enough with the chit chat. There's a lot to catch you up on, so let's get started.
As you already know, our little girl has been living with us since July 1. Ash immediately took some time off to bond and I was able to take some, as well. At the end of August, we threw her her first birthday party. It was such an amazing day. She had a great time with everyone who showed up and destroyed the smash cake Ashley made for her. She probably ate 2/3 of the thing. Yep, that's my kid. Cake...the greatest food ever invented.
When I returned to work in mid-October, we enrolled the kiddo in daycare. We thought she might be a little timid but she went in there and said bye to me like a champ. Of course, shortly after she started daycare, she got a cold. We expected this, though, as it's actually pretty common. She has her days when she cries when we drop her off, but she's usually excited to go play with her friends.
In our last update I mentioned that the Termination Of Parental Rights hearing was being sent to trial because both biological parents contested the termination. The trial was set for the end of October, but was delayed again. This time until the middle of December. On the advice of the baby's social worker, we hadn't been attending any of the court proceedings. Ash and I talked about possibly attending the trial in December and decided it would be a good idea.
On December 18th we went to the courthouse and found the area we needed to be in. We nervously sat on a bench while we waited for our case to be called. Once the case was called, we made our way in to the courtroom and sat in the gallery to watch the trial. It was short. The bio dad was there, but no bio mom. The judge went through the necessary procedures and then explained that, at this point, there has been nothing done by the bio parents to warrant them keeping their parental rights. PARENTAL RIGHTS WERE OFFICIALLY AND LEGALLY TERMINATED!!!
Ash and I were both fighting tears in the courtroom. I also tend to laugh when I get emotional so I was literally biting my tongue to keep from doing so while the judge was delivering his ruling. Outside of the courtroom, while speaking with the baby's social worker and attorney, we couldn't hold it in anymore. We were just so elated that one of the final obstacles was out of the way. It was such a great feeling! I can't even begin to describe it.
There is now a short period of time during which the bio parents can appeal the ruling. We have been told not to worry about that though, so we aren't. Once that time period passes, we will begin the final stage of the adoption process!
Let's fast forward a few days. To December 24th. Our first Christmas Eve with a child. This is the day my family has their get together. We got there a little after 6 p.m. and everyone was excited to have the new addition there for the party. We have an awesome tradition of opening presents at midnight. Ash and I decided that we'd try to wake the kid up at gift time since her normal bedtime is 8. We didn't have to do that. She somehow managed to stay up the entire time. She was having a lot of fun running around being the center of attention. We said our goodbyes after gifts and thought she would fall asleep in the car. Wrong! She ended up going to bed around 1 a.m.
Christmas morning, we always head to Ash's parents house for gifts with them and her sister. We usually try to get there by 8 but the baby didn't wake up until then. She was worn out from the night before. So we got her out of her crib and took her into the living room to see what Santa left for her. She was groggy at first and still doesn't understand the concept of Santa so it took a minute to see what we were waiting for.
Once she saw the rocking pony, Sophia the First chair and giant stuffed animals under the tree, her face lit up in pure joy. It was the greatest thing I've ever seen. She has a cute little smirk that she breaks out before the full smile hits and it makes it even better. We headed over to see Grammy, Pa and Auntie and she got to tear into a lot more presents. We spent Christmas day with Ash's family and my mom and her fiancé. The kidlet got to spend the spend the day with the people who love her most and we all had a wonderful day. To be honest, it was the best Christmas of my life.
So now, as we wait for the next step, we begin a new year with the same goal in mind. To adopt this beautiful little girl and continue to give her a life full of love, happiness and stability. And to continue the Sharp Evolution.
As you already know, our little girl has been living with us since July 1. Ash immediately took some time off to bond and I was able to take some, as well. At the end of August, we threw her her first birthday party. It was such an amazing day. She had a great time with everyone who showed up and destroyed the smash cake Ashley made for her. She probably ate 2/3 of the thing. Yep, that's my kid. Cake...the greatest food ever invented.
When I returned to work in mid-October, we enrolled the kiddo in daycare. We thought she might be a little timid but she went in there and said bye to me like a champ. Of course, shortly after she started daycare, she got a cold. We expected this, though, as it's actually pretty common. She has her days when she cries when we drop her off, but she's usually excited to go play with her friends.
In our last update I mentioned that the Termination Of Parental Rights hearing was being sent to trial because both biological parents contested the termination. The trial was set for the end of October, but was delayed again. This time until the middle of December. On the advice of the baby's social worker, we hadn't been attending any of the court proceedings. Ash and I talked about possibly attending the trial in December and decided it would be a good idea.
On December 18th we went to the courthouse and found the area we needed to be in. We nervously sat on a bench while we waited for our case to be called. Once the case was called, we made our way in to the courtroom and sat in the gallery to watch the trial. It was short. The bio dad was there, but no bio mom. The judge went through the necessary procedures and then explained that, at this point, there has been nothing done by the bio parents to warrant them keeping their parental rights. PARENTAL RIGHTS WERE OFFICIALLY AND LEGALLY TERMINATED!!!
Ash and I were both fighting tears in the courtroom. I also tend to laugh when I get emotional so I was literally biting my tongue to keep from doing so while the judge was delivering his ruling. Outside of the courtroom, while speaking with the baby's social worker and attorney, we couldn't hold it in anymore. We were just so elated that one of the final obstacles was out of the way. It was such a great feeling! I can't even begin to describe it.
There is now a short period of time during which the bio parents can appeal the ruling. We have been told not to worry about that though, so we aren't. Once that time period passes, we will begin the final stage of the adoption process!
Let's fast forward a few days. To December 24th. Our first Christmas Eve with a child. This is the day my family has their get together. We got there a little after 6 p.m. and everyone was excited to have the new addition there for the party. We have an awesome tradition of opening presents at midnight. Ash and I decided that we'd try to wake the kid up at gift time since her normal bedtime is 8. We didn't have to do that. She somehow managed to stay up the entire time. She was having a lot of fun running around being the center of attention. We said our goodbyes after gifts and thought she would fall asleep in the car. Wrong! She ended up going to bed around 1 a.m.
Christmas morning, we always head to Ash's parents house for gifts with them and her sister. We usually try to get there by 8 but the baby didn't wake up until then. She was worn out from the night before. So we got her out of her crib and took her into the living room to see what Santa left for her. She was groggy at first and still doesn't understand the concept of Santa so it took a minute to see what we were waiting for.
Once she saw the rocking pony, Sophia the First chair and giant stuffed animals under the tree, her face lit up in pure joy. It was the greatest thing I've ever seen. She has a cute little smirk that she breaks out before the full smile hits and it makes it even better. We headed over to see Grammy, Pa and Auntie and she got to tear into a lot more presents. We spent Christmas day with Ash's family and my mom and her fiancé. The kidlet got to spend the spend the day with the people who love her most and we all had a wonderful day. To be honest, it was the best Christmas of my life.
So now, as we wait for the next step, we begin a new year with the same goal in mind. To adopt this beautiful little girl and continue to give her a life full of love, happiness and stability. And to continue the Sharp Evolution.
Tuesday, August 20, 2013
Walkin' Tall
Hello, reader people. It's been a while since our last post. On July 1, the baby moved in with us and we officially became her foster parents. We have been extremely busy with the little one and we are loving every minute of it. She is a bundle of joy and the most entertaining person I've met.
A couple weeks later, we had a "Welcome To The Family" party for her. A lot of people showed up to meet her. As always, she was happy to let anyone and everyone hold her. She is great around large groups of people, which is good because we both have pretty large families. Ashley, our moms and a few others did a great job planning and setting up this party. It truly was an awesome day!
Since then, we have seen her learn quite a few new things. She says a few words, like mama and dada. Cat and dog. She also says cup and has been trying to say bite. The other day, the dog sneezed and she decided it would be fun to mimic her and faked a sneeze of her own. Complete with the head nod and "Chhhh" sound. She now does it when anyone sneezes and, at times, for no reason at all. We have also started fake sneezing just so she'll do it. It is one of the funniest things I've seen. She loves to play and laugh and really only cries when she's tired.
Most parents we talk to ask how she sleeps. To which I have to fight the urge to say "laying down" or "with her eyes closed." Yes, I know, smart aleck-ness is my friend. Seriously though, she's a really good sleeper. She's usually asleep by 9 or 9:30 and sleeps through the night. Most mornings she's up by 7, but occasionally gives us a little extra shut eye and stays asleep until 8. She also naps twice a day.
The biggest new development is that she took her first steps a couple weeks ago. Until this week she wouldn't take more than a few steps at a time and she wouldn't do that very often. Now she is getting more brave and trying to walk more. Soon she will be running and I can't wait!
These next two weeks are going to be crazy. Wednesday is going to test our nerves. The termination of parental rights hearing is happening then. Luckily it's in the morning so we won't have to wait all day to get a call from her social worker. We understand that the court could issue a continuance or they could terminate parental rights. Of course, we want the latter but are prepared for either outcome. We think. There is also the possibility of someone else in the biological family trying to get custody, but it's pretty late in the game to be stepping up. We are praying that the court realizes that she has already bonded with us and has a good, happy home here. It is indescribable how much we love her already. She physically looks like she could be our child and she has many of the same characteristics and mannerisms that we do. We really feel like she was meant to be part of our family.
Her first birthday is coming up in a couple weeks too. We (mostly Ash) are planning her party and getting more excited (both of us) by the day. Ashley has come up with a great theme and lots of good ideas. It's going to be amazing!
So that's the latest chapter in the Sharp Evolution. We will get better at updating more frequently. Thanks for reading. Until next time...
A couple weeks later, we had a "Welcome To The Family" party for her. A lot of people showed up to meet her. As always, she was happy to let anyone and everyone hold her. She is great around large groups of people, which is good because we both have pretty large families. Ashley, our moms and a few others did a great job planning and setting up this party. It truly was an awesome day!
Since then, we have seen her learn quite a few new things. She says a few words, like mama and dada. Cat and dog. She also says cup and has been trying to say bite. The other day, the dog sneezed and she decided it would be fun to mimic her and faked a sneeze of her own. Complete with the head nod and "Chhhh" sound. She now does it when anyone sneezes and, at times, for no reason at all. We have also started fake sneezing just so she'll do it. It is one of the funniest things I've seen. She loves to play and laugh and really only cries when she's tired.
Most parents we talk to ask how she sleeps. To which I have to fight the urge to say "laying down" or "with her eyes closed." Yes, I know, smart aleck-ness is my friend. Seriously though, she's a really good sleeper. She's usually asleep by 9 or 9:30 and sleeps through the night. Most mornings she's up by 7, but occasionally gives us a little extra shut eye and stays asleep until 8. She also naps twice a day.
The biggest new development is that she took her first steps a couple weeks ago. Until this week she wouldn't take more than a few steps at a time and she wouldn't do that very often. Now she is getting more brave and trying to walk more. Soon she will be running and I can't wait!
These next two weeks are going to be crazy. Wednesday is going to test our nerves. The termination of parental rights hearing is happening then. Luckily it's in the morning so we won't have to wait all day to get a call from her social worker. We understand that the court could issue a continuance or they could terminate parental rights. Of course, we want the latter but are prepared for either outcome. We think. There is also the possibility of someone else in the biological family trying to get custody, but it's pretty late in the game to be stepping up. We are praying that the court realizes that she has already bonded with us and has a good, happy home here. It is indescribable how much we love her already. She physically looks like she could be our child and she has many of the same characteristics and mannerisms that we do. We really feel like she was meant to be part of our family.
Her first birthday is coming up in a couple weeks too. We (mostly Ash) are planning her party and getting more excited (both of us) by the day. Ashley has come up with a great theme and lots of good ideas. It's going to be amazing!
So that's the latest chapter in the Sharp Evolution. We will get better at updating more frequently. Thanks for reading. Until next time...
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